ashley pegram , a 28-year-old mother-of-three , left her summerville , south carolina home .
her sister , brandy chance , reported her missing the next day and went through her kik account , where she found messages from a man who identified himself as 18-year-old emoney bon .
but when she got too drunk on their date has been arrested for a date with a man she had met on messaging service kik on the evening of april 3 .
he has now been charged with obstructing justice .